I personally don't use the term "chauvinist" because for some reason my mind thinks of that as a french nationalist and not a patriarch thing.

I'm fairly sure I have seen comments (probably just a hand full amongst this mountain of debate, heck,) that seemed to reduce the Fanlib venture to the fact that their board was of only men, and seemed to paint it as an evil, but then again, I haven't bookmarked these comments, and I might have interpreted them wrongly or read them wrong.

And I'm not arguing with most of the people here because I'm agreeing with them. I'm just pointing at a problem I think needs pointing at, although after all this debate, I think I might as well just sit back again and do a lot of thinking and research.

I don't know what randomaicoholic (we are two different people *poke*) thinks on this issue now, but I think I've had enough and need to digest it all.

Thanks for the reply.